I’m celebrating Mother’s Day on the blog by having Mother Nerd herself here to share some thoughts on a reading life.

Since I re-read one of my favorite books this month, my mind’s been circling back again and again to this idea: reading may just be the distinguishing factor on a person’s path to greatness. I’m hardly the first person to speculate about this, but I believe it’s important to keep the idea relevant. 

Today, I’m writing for the folks who want to be writing, know they have the time and energy, yet aren’t. For whatever reason(s), you are stuck staring at a blank Word document. You’re spending more time looking out the window wracking your brain for an idea than you are scribbling sentences. You may even be doomscrolling because you’re that discouraged or unmotivated.

While this week has been a good and productive one, two rejections hit my inbox on Tuesday, and that’s not exactly what I consider optimal. Or encouraging. Or any other positive word you might want to plug in. Yet, as much as it stinks that two of my pieces haven’t found homes in the magazines I submitted them to, I know it’s okay.

In case you haven’t already started doing this, it’s time to shake off the hunker-down months and embrace the sunshine, rain storms, and fresh flowers. Even if you’re like me and simply adore the wintertime. You, as a writer, have your own spring cleaning to do, and it’s time to do it.

I’m thinking about change today, as the first quarter of 2026 is nearly past us, and it’s a great time to decide what effect the changes I implemented at the beginning of January have had on my productivity and creativity—and share some advice for anyone trying to implement changes of their own. 

I didn’t consciously decide to give myself time off from writing in the middle of the month, but it happened and I’m glad I let it.

March is the month of spring break and travels, so I want to share an abridged entry from a travel journal I kept during a trip to Hawaii in March of 2023.

Something I’ve loved seeing more and more of on social media (ironically enough) is people sharing their thoughts about returning to more analogue ways of living and enjoying life, and I’ve been trying to lean more into that over the last few years.

You know, it was Steinbeck’s birthday on the 27th. He would have been 124 years old, if that was a thing. To me, he’s a little bit timeless because, when I read his stories, the themes and emotions he’s given us connect as well now as they did at their time of publication.

When I was in college starting to take my writing more seriously, I held Pat Conroy up as the author I wanted to imitate. I thought if I could string together beautiful words and phrases like him, tell stories of such emotional-depth and poignancy, that I’d really be achieving something. So, I gave it a go. Tried to sound like Pat—but only ended up sounding like me. And you know what? Thank goodness for that.

The month of love shines all its light on the romantic, lovey-dovey things, and the Best Book Beaus deserve their moment in the sun. If you’re expecting to read about Mr. Darcy here or anyone from a Sarah J. Maas series, I hate to disappoint you but you won’t find them here. You will, however, find four worth your while!

Here’s the thing about birthdays and anniversaries: with each passing year, you are leveling up. When you age, you’re maturing. For sure in the physical sense; hopefully in the emotional sense, too. Another year in your marriage means another 365 days you spent growing with your spouse. You’re going into your tenth year at the same job, and that often means a raise, a promotion, responsibility over a big project. What does one whole year of running a blog mean?

This may seem random, but today I’ve written about what I remember about lunchtime in elementary school. During my recent read of Bird by Bird (Lamott), I paused after finishing a chapter in which Ms. Lamott instructs her students to do just that and she does, too. It’s meant to be a writing exercise to wake up your imagination and creative energy.

As a writer—and a person—deeply interested in perpetually learning, I’ve picked up my fair share of books on writing to continue my education of the craft. The latest one is Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott, and, though the subtitle of the book is Some Instructions on Writing and Life, what she has to say is less about what to do as a writer and more about what it means to be one.

In my last post, I alluded to my writing routine recently going through some changes, and, at the end of last year, I wrote a whole post about why I find routines important, in general. Well, you might be staring down all the time ahead of us in 2026 and thinking you, too, would like to set up structure for your creative projects. Let me give you a few tips on how to do just that!

About a year ago, I read Novelist as a Vocation by Haruki Murakami, who’s had a successful career writing books for the last few decades. He’s an author who pops up on my radar every so often, and I intend to read Norwegian Wood this year (it’s been on my TBR for a while). So, though I have yet to read a work of his fiction, I picked up this essay collection because I find the insights into other writers’ minds incredibly valuable.

A new year typically means a new resolution or new set of goals, both in my personal and creative lives. Up until the last few years, I didn’t really care about setting a resolution. Then, post-undergrad and away from the syllabuses and objectives set for me, I realized I enjoyed coming up with my own structure (my own syllabus, in other words) and identifying what it is I want to work towards over the course of a year.

It’s that time of the year when everyone and their sister is sharing highlights and reflections and memories of a year that’s rapidly wrapping up—and I’m not about to take an original route and do something else with this very last blog post of 2025.

Of the 141 books I’ve read in 2025 (as of this posting), let me tell you about the three that have taken me the most by surprise and why!